Convert nodeupdate to non-recursive

This took me a while to figure out. We no longer visit all 9 block
around and with the touched node, but instead visit adjacent plus
self. We then walk -non- recursively through all neigbors and if
they cause a nodeupdate, we just keep walking until it ends. On
the way back we prune the tail.

I've tested this with 8000+ sand nodes. Video result is here:

  https://youtu.be/liKKgLefhFQ

Took ~ 10 seconds to process and return to normal.