Add server-side enforcement of the 'fast' privilege; also fix client checking 'fly' instead of 'fast'

This fixes LUA_USE_DLOPEN having no effect.

Reimplement authentication handler in Lua; now we have 1) infinite privilege names, 2) minetest.register_authentication_handler()

Add minetest.register_on_joinplayer and minetest.register_on_leaveplayer,
make adding new callbacks to scriptapi.cpp easier by adding
scriptapi_run_callbacks, also fix a minor bug with PlayerSAO <->
singleplayer mode interaction