Fire: Move flame extinguishing to separate faster ABM

Add extinguish sounds (from default mod lavacooling)
'disable fire' setting extinguishes fire quickly using a dedicated ABM
'disable fire' also disables all other ABMs
Simplify flammable node removal ABM
Speed up node ignition, it was too slow
Add 'sunlight propagates = true' and 'paramtype = "light" to flame
Balance fire sounds' gain